For couples, especially those dealing with debt, choosing between merging finances or keeping separate accounts can have a lasting impact on both their relationship and financial future.
With close to one in five individuals ending a relationship due to money troubles, the reality is that money remains one of the biggest issues in relationships, according to Sebastien Alexanderson, Head of National Debt Advisors.
Joint finances
Having their finances combined fosters trust and simplifies money management for some couples and Alexanderson emphasises that transparency is crucial.
"Discussing finances candidly is crucial. Understanding each other’s financial situations, including debts and spending habits, can prevent misunderstandings and build a stronger foundation for your relationship," Alexanderson said.
He said that the merging of accounts can offers greater transparency, making it easier for couples to have their financial goals align.
Shared accounts can also simplify budgeting, ensuring that all expenses are accounted for and managed by both partners.
Many couples find that having a joint account strengthens their financial partnership, especially when tackling debt together. However, it’s not without its risks.
"Trust remains a major barrier for many, with nearly one in five young adults stating that they wouldn’t trust their partner enough to open a joint account. Financial caution is understandable, especially given that according to the Experian report, 15% of individuals have experienced a partner putting bills in their name and failing to pay them back, harming their credit score." Alexanderson said.
Separate finances
Alexanderson said that for couples who prefer their financial independence, keeping accounts separate may be the better option especially when debt is involved.
"Maintaining separate accounts allows each partner to manage their own money while avoiding the risks associated with shared financial obligations. It also ensures that one partner’s debt does not directly impact the other’s credit score," Alexanderson said.
While having separate accounts allow for financial autonomy, they can also complicate the sharing of expenses..
The lack of transparency can sometimes lead to financial mistrust especially when one partner is substantially more financially responsible than the other partner.
Financial anxiety plays a huge role in relationships, with Experian reporting that more than half of young adults are cautious about their partner’s spending habits, which can put strain on the relationships.
Plus, more than one third of individuals claim that their partner’s financial anxiety has negatively impacted their relationship which makes open discussions about money even more important.
Communicating with your partner
John Manyike, head of Financial Education at Old Mutual said that there are several reasons why couple discuss their financial situation.
Reason One
Just like any team, couples need to be one the same page about their financial goals, whether it is buying a home, saving for a vacation or planning for retirement. This helps the couple work together towards common dreams and goals.
Reason Two
Discussing financial situations helps couples avoid misunderstandings as money is a common cause of disagreement. So when you openly discuss your finances, you can avoid misunderstandings and build trust.
Reason Three
Discussing financial situations also helps with budgeting because it creates a certain level of transparency in how couples budget and how they can better their budget.
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